Client login

Kristin Warnaca, Wilder Intimacy

An initiation into wholeness

Packages

First Solo Session

Book a Solo Session if…
  • You are single or you are partnered and want clarity before bringing something to your partner
  • You’re feeling activated, shut down, or unsure what you even want
  • You want to explore your own desire, boundaries, or patterns first
  • You’re doing personal healing, erotic work, or integration
  • You don’t want to perform, explain, or manage another person in the room

This is where you come back to yourself first. Many people start here, even if they’re in a relationship.
View details

First Partnered Session

For partners attending together. One shared booking, one shared session space.

Book a Couples Session if…
  • You’re having the same conversation over and over with no movement
  • There’s tension, misalignment, or something unspoken between you
  • You want support navigating desire, intimacy, or erotic differences
  • You’re exploring new territory (erotic expansion, ENM, kink, power dynamics, etc.)
  • You want help staying connected while talking about hard things or learning new things together

This is where we work with the dynamic itself, in real time.
View details

Testimonials

Kristin has an uncanny ability to ask clarifying questions that cut to the quick and pierce directly to the heart of the matter at hand.

She does so with a grace and gentleness that will set you at ease as you unearth underlying issues and move past roadblocks, setting you on a path to breakthrough.

- Louise

Kristin is an intuitive guide and bridge to love that leads you back to yourself. She offers a vast array of modalities including deep guided hypnosis and playful shamanic storytelling with shibari rope to identify and unwind unconscious attachment patterns.

Her work clears old patterns without getting stuck in talking-about-it-loops. The result of working with Kristin is a sense of lightness with a new awareness so we can show up better for ourselves and our partners.

- Jacob Holt

Kristin is MAGICAL! I’ve done a lot of healing work over the years but hands-down this is the best experience I’ve ever had.

In only three sessions she has ignited my creativity, enhanced my self-love and self-acceptance, helped me understand my blocks… and my romantic relationship has been reborn.

- Dr. Brianne Grogan

Kristin's guidance has allowed my husband and I to connect on the deepest level. She is highly skilled in somatic work and is so intuitive in the way she communicates and holds space for people.

- Dr. Sumra Zaidi

Kristin went well above and beyond for our half-day immersion experience. My partner and I already have an amazing relationship, and Kristin helped us unlock many new ways to make it even more expandingly playful and intimate.

- Aron Lucas

I was not the man I wanted to be. I used to live in a lot of fear and self-consciousness: muted, stunted.

Kristin helped me get my balls back; now I can live from my power and my heart fully without shame.

- Shawn

Kristin held a safe and supportive space for me to unearth some of my deepest pains surrounding relationships and intimacy.

She guided me through a variety of exercises that allowed me to separate myself from my patterns of thinking and behavior which allowed me to grow into a deeper level of awareness and motivation around my healing process.

It was a deeply transformational experience for me and I felt a HUGE sense of relief and clarity around my relationship. Thank you Kristin for your leadership and expertise in taking me to the next level in my life!

- Brighton Loughlin

Frequently Asked Questions

Who is this work for, and not for?
If you’re drawn to work that is quietly powerful, deeply honest, non-performative, attuned to your pacing and nervous system, and not easily categorized, then we'll be a dreamy fit.

There are no pre-requisites to this work, just curiosity and willingness.

This may not be the right fit if you’re looking for:

  • a step-by-step process or a framework to follow
  • ongoing access, frequent check-ins, or support between sessions
  • someone who helps you avoid what’s uncomfortable
  • primarily intellectual insight without engaging your body or lived experience
  • a practitioner in a clearly defined role (“coach,” “healer,” “expert”) that stays consistent regardless of what’s actually happening (there’s nothing wrong with wanting those things; they’re just not what happens here).

If this feels like relief or piques some curiosity, you’re in the right place. 

PLEASE READ MY TERMS AND CONDITIONS BEFORE BOOKING to understand the ethical container and boundaries of my work.
Should I book a solo session or a partnership session?
Book a Solo Session if…
  • You want clarity before bringing something to your partner
  • You’re feeling activated, shut down, or unsure what you even want
  • You want to explore your own desire, boundaries, or patterns first
  • You’re doing personal healing, erotic work, or integration
  • You don’t want to perform, explain, or manage another person in the room

This is where you come back to yourself first. Many people start here, even if they’re in a relationship.

Book a Couples Session if…
  • You’re having the same conversation over and over with no movement
  • There’s tension, misalignment, or something unspoken between you
  • You want support navigating desire, intimacy, or erotic differences
  • You’re exploring new territory (ENM, kink, power dynamics, etc.)
  • You want help staying connected while talking about hard things

This is where we work with the dynamic itself—in real time.

Booking note for couples
Please use ONE shared email login when booking. It needs to be a unique email address that you do not use to schedule solo sessions.

Not sure? If one of you feels hesitant, overwhelmed, or unclear, 
start with a solo session. It often creates more safety, clarity, and momentum
before coming together.
How does your work flow without monthly/quarterly/semi-annual packages?
How the work flows
There’s no required program or package. Some people come once and get what they need. Many return over time (solo, together, or both) as things evolve. We follow what’s actually needed, not a fixed structure.

That depends on what you need. Some clients come in for a single conversation or a short series and leave with exactly what they needed. Others stay in relationship with the work, returning over time as new layers open, deepen, and integrate.

1–3 sessions is often enough to create lasting change on one specific challenge if you come with deep focus and clarity.

When you’re wanting deeper or more sustained transformation, then we'll probably work together regularly at first, adjusting the pacing as things integrate.

We shape the pace around your goals, your capacity, and what your body is actually ready for.
Can we meet in person?
Perhaps! We always begin virtually so there’s already a sense of safety, attunement, and shared language before we meet in person.

In-person sessions may be available for select returning clients in Central Oregon depending on my travel schedule and the nature of the work, but are not guaranteed; you are welcome to ask after our first few sessions. 

Immersions are always in-person: come visit Bend, Oregon, or fly me to you!
Do you offer hands-on touch or erotic energy exchange?
No. PLEASE READ MY TERMS AND CONDITIONS BEFORE BOOKING to understand the ethical container and boundaries of my work.
Do you work with practitioners or offer professional consultation?
Yes. I offer education, consultation, and mentorship for licensed and credentialed professionals such as therapists, psychologists, coaches, health providers, pelvic floor specialists and more. 
Will you respect varied spiritual or religious beliefs in this work?
Yes. I work with people across a wide range of spiritual and religious backgrounds, including those who are actively practicing, questioning, deconstructing, or not connected to any tradition. 

I have special expertise in Orthodox and modern Judaism, conservative and charismatic Christianity, ex-vangelical deconstruction, shamanism and Buddhism.   

 I do not bring my personal ethics or beliefs to our work; I support you in exploring your experience in congruence with what matters most to you.
Do you have expertise in supporting LGBTQIA+, BDSM & ENM relationships?
Yes. I am not limited to working with a specific “type” of person or relationship paradigm. We work with what is actually present in your experience, rather than fitting you into a category.

I work with people across a wide range of relationship structures, identities, and expressions: from virginity, celibacy, 'dead bedrooms' and long-term monogamy to more expansive and non-traditional ways of relating, such as monogamish, ENM, CNM, open, polycules & RA.

I am an LGBTQIA+ ally, and my work and training is inclusive of diverse sexualities, gender identities, orientations, and expressions. I am certified as a Queer Competency business.

I bring both professional training and lived expertise in this realm, including almost a decade of expertise with kink, BDSM, 24/7 ethical power exchange, and  700+ hours in Jungian psychodrama and archetypes specifically around psychological D/s.

You do not need to label yourself (or fit into any specific category) to work with me.

Let's Connect